“But why, God?”

It may be hoping a spouse will change and recommit to a marraige, and they don’t.  It may be a job that we truly want and don’t get.   Even though some things very dear to our hearts are denied, let’s not lose hope.   … More “But why, God?”

Anger…and what to do about it.

Whether you’ve lost a close loved one, a relationship, or the life you wanted, those losses have to be grieved, and one of the side effects is anger.   So, we have to find a way to express our anger that helps us heal, but doesn’t cause others the need to.      … More Anger…and what to do about it.

Not Guilty

Vulnerability was God’s idea. Think of yourselves the way Christ Jesus thought of himself. He had equal status with God but didn’t think so much of himself that he had to cling to the advantages of that status no matter what. Not at all. When the time came, he set aside the privileges of deity … More Not Guilty

Telling the Kids: You’re getting Divorced (ages 5 to 8)

Don’t be surprised if your child shows signs of insecurity or regression, becomes extra mischievous, uncooperative, or clingy, or seeks a lot of attention from you and others during this difficult time. Even the most amicable of separations creates an earth-shattering change for any child. … More Telling the Kids: You’re getting Divorced (ages 5 to 8)