“But why, God?”

It may be hoping a spouse will change and recommit to a marraige, and they don’t.  It may be a job that we truly want and don’t get.   Even though some things very dear to our hearts are denied, let’s not lose hope.   … More “But why, God?”

Anger…and what to do about it.

Whether you’ve lost a close loved one, a relationship, or the life you wanted, those losses have to be grieved, and one of the side effects is anger.   So, we have to find a way to express our anger that helps us heal, but doesn’t cause others the need to.      … More Anger…and what to do about it.

Telling the Kids: You’re getting Divorced (ages 5 to 8)

Don’t be surprised if your child shows signs of insecurity or regression, becomes extra mischievous, uncooperative, or clingy, or seeks a lot of attention from you and others during this difficult time. Even the most amicable of separations creates an earth-shattering change for any child. … More Telling the Kids: You’re getting Divorced (ages 5 to 8)